Some people have a desire to bind or confine another person or ask to be binded physically out of their own or their partner's own sexual enjoyment. Traditional Chinese and Japanese erotic art made reference to sexual bondage. Despite Confucianism's suppression, the bondage tradition persisted in Japan, where tied women continue to be a common motif in modern cinema and novel pornography1.

For those who are interested in sexual bondage and related alternative sexual behaviors, people have established clubs and friendship networks in many different locations. Some of these organizations produce newsletters that include news, feature stories, and personal advertisements.It is well known that people in the B&D (bondage&dominance) community worry about safety, so safety workshops are also held at community gatherings.

Consent is a crucial aspect of any BDSM activity. It involves all participants freely and enthusiastically agreeing to engage in a specific activity. If performed improperly, bondage can be harmful. If a dominating initiator is not paying attention to the signs of a submissive recipient, restraints may block airways and blood arteries, harm nerves, and result in other types of harm. A safe phrase or symbol is frequently agreed upon by the parties.2

A few things that could go wrong:

Not being able to breath Circulation Impairment Falling Nerve damage Fainting Non-consensual activities.

And 10 GOLDEN RULES3 to make bondage safer:

Trust your rope partner. Try visiting a bondage class first! Discuss your limitations before each session. Know your limits and use common sense. If you don't have enough time, avoid playing with ropes. If you are sleepy, intoxicated, or have a condition that makes it unsafe for you to bind or be tied, avoid engaging in bondage. Ensure your partner receives the proper feedback on what to do and what not to do. Unpleasant feelings are usually a sign that something is off. Inform your partner right away. Don't leave your bondaged partner unattended. Keep a pair of emergency scissors close by at all times. Ensure that bondage is always a fun and good experience.

Some of the bondage training classes you could attend: BDSM training academy in USA and Canada BDSM online education Shibari Academy Shibari Study

Resources that can help you with bondage safety issues: Safety guidelines for bondage Safety considerations Nerve safety for rope bondage

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