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I once heard the quote ‘the best sex is in the mind at first’ and it resonated with me. Have you ever been away from your partner /lover/ fuck buddy and, knowing you are going to see each other, began sending messages describing the lust you have for each other, what you want to do to each other, how hot the sex is gonna be… you start to imagine the ripping of clothes, their breath on your skin, the moments leading up to sex… like I said ‘the best sex is in the mind at first’.
These messages, these thoughts, this is all foreplay, and foreplay is one of, if not the most, important part of pleasure based sex. So here are a few pointers on how to have the perfect foreplay, which will lead to perfect sex!
- Hygiene first It is nice to be clean for yourself and your partner before you engage in any sort of sexual practice!
- Kiss everywhere By this I mean everywhere on the body and everywhere in your environment, why leave everything in the bedroom - take it to the sofa, the kitchen, the bathroom, the car, the cinema, the restaurant. Sex can start anywhere.
- Talk to your lover. Tell them what you want, what you want them to do, what you want to do to them, whisper it in their ear while you breath on their neck. Trust me. Subtle touching for impact.
- Gentle stroking, a finger on the inner thigh, a hand resting on a crotch, very subtle rubbing. Make your lover ache for you. You want to be as wet or as hard as possible before the sex starts. Get to the point where you can’t take it anymore.
- Striptease each other. Take your time removing clothes, tease each other, make the moment last longer.
- Toys can be your friends. Why not start off with a little bit of toy play, light BDSM (if that is something you're into) like silk ties and blindfolds can be fun (if all are happy and consenting and safe) vibrators, dildos and plugs can also make for nice intros and teasing each other ready for the show, or even instead of penetrative sex! Remember that the outcome doesn’t ALWAYS need to be penetrative sex.
Make sure you are both at the same place before you start. It is easy to get carried away so it always important to check you and your partner are on the same page with ANYTHING sexual. Remember that consent comes first and anything less than a ‘yes’ is a ‘no’... also remember that consent can change at any time.
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