How to go down on someone...

Something I pride myself on is my ability to give head, no matter what genitalia is in front of me, I’m damn good at it. Why? Well, I’ve had a lot of practice to start with, both on and off camera, but most importantly, I enjoy it. I get pleasure from giving pleasure, there is nothing more exciting to me than making my lover orgasm. So I got good at it, it’s just lazy to not learn how to pleasure your sexual partner! Here are the basics to going down on someone…

Safe and consensual sex is best It is the most important rule in all sexual practices, consenting safe sex is best, so make sure you are both up for a good time before you get down to it. Start slow Like all sexual practices it's nice to have a little build up and tease, gently nibble and kiss the inside of your partner's thighs, kiss around their lips and above their clit, feel them shiver in anticipation, you want your lover squirming and moaning before you even start to go to town on the clitoris Washing machines are not sexy. They just aren’t, so before you get a mouthful of spit and just start slobbering like a dog all over your partner's delicate sexual opening, pull it back a bit, licking up and down can be incredibly sensual, some may enjoy having their anus licked too but it's probably better to ask before you do this. Find the clitoris. There are enough jokes out there about men not knowing where the clitoris is, so let’s make those jokes a thing of the past, and if you have your own vagina you should DEFINITELY know where it is! The clitoris is like a tiny pink button that sits under a hood at the top of the vulva, and this is a button that is begging to be pushed (albeit not aggressively) using your tongue to gently flick the clitoris, starting at a steady rhythm and building up speed will be a sure fire way to achieve a splendid climax. Check the claws long nails and vaginas rarely go hand in hand, so if you happen to have a fresh set of stiletto cut acrylics on, you might want to stick to just your mouth for today Fingers are fun That being said, fingers and tongues go VERY well together, as you flick the clitoris with your tongue, begin gently sliding one or two fingers inside the vagina (always reading the room and checking your partner is enjoying everything) angle the fingers GENTLY upwards as though you are navigating the clitoris from inside and make very slight movements (don’t just stab your fingers in and out) keep going with this gently building a rhythm, always glancing up to check all is well, until you achieve an orgasm, you will know you have made your partner orgasm when you feel the muscles of their pelvic floor contract around your fingers.

Remember that most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone, so learning the art of cunnilingus is a way to ensure that your partner has an orgasm every single time! Happy dining! You’re welcome!