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Tips for talking to your Child/Teen about Sex

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February 27, 2023

Early conversations about sex are important, as they send the message that sex is a healthy and normal part of life. It is important that you give your child/teen honest information, and keep open so they know that they can talk to you about sex. Remember, you don't have to give them all the information at once, especially when they are young. It can be a continuing conversation over time, that becomes increasingly more detailed. The good thing about talking to your child about sex is it makes other important topics easier to get into such as puberty, pornography, and relationships/dating. This will make it easier for your child/teen to understand and process larger topics. So, how and when do you explain sex to your child? Not exactly a fun or thrilling conversation is it? Here are some of our key tips:

  • It's never too early to talk. 
  • Ask them what they already know, and build off of that. 
  • Correct any misinformation that they may have.
  • Early conversations can make it easier to talk to your child later on as they become older. 
  • It will also make them feel less embarrassed about these topics. 
  • Use the correct name for body parts 
  • Have both parents involved in the conversation. When both parents are involved in the discussion, it shows the child that it is normal to talk about sexuality, and can help them to feel more comfortable talking about their bodies and sexuality. 
  • It's ok to not know the answer. If they ask you a question you're unsure about, that's fine! Explain that you are not sure, but that you will find the answer for them, and assure them that you will get back to them. 
  • Don't be embarrassed. Your child can sense if you are embarrassed talking about sex. So try not to be! SEX IS NATURAL. 
  • Talk about masturbation. It's so important that masturbation is more normalised. Let them know that it is healthy and not something to feel guilty or ashamed about. 

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