Why you shouldn't fake an orgasm

Maria BettinaMaria Bettina

February 27, 2023

Let's face it, we've all faked it at one time or another ... well, maybe lots of times! Sometimes it's a good way to make shit sex end faster, or other times it's done out of nerves or expectations. However, it's a habit we really have to get out of. Here's why:

  1. It's also about you! Sex isn't just about making your partner feel good, it's also about you. 
  2. The more you fake it, the harder it gets to actually have an orgasm! Faking it can lead to you disconnecting with your body and perceptions, making it a hell of a lot more challenging to actually cum. 
  3. You won't feel as close to your partner. Having an orgasm can make you bond more with your partner, and that's definitely something that you don't want to miss out on.
  4. Constantly faking an orgasm will remove a layer of trust between you and your partner.
  5. People know if you're faking it. 
  6. Faking an orgasm can lead to hurt feelings and arguments. 
  7. You'll make your sex life worse. This will only make your partner repeat things you might not like. 
  8. Orgasms reduce stress! So why would you want to miss out on that? 
  9. Faking orgasms only fuels the patriarchy and ego. 
  10. You're just wasting your acting skills.

If you're struggling to get an orgasm, maybe try to bring some toys into the mix, or ask one of our performers for sex advice!


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