## What is it/ How is it done?

* The receiver lies back on the bed with a pillow under their head.
* Receiver brings their knees into their chest and crosses their legs.
* The giver kneels down in front and places their hands on the receiver’s waist or under their crossed legs.
* Then the giver can enter.

## Benefits

* The crossing of the legs makes this position even more exciting, adding extra stimulation.
* This position leads to a great climax.
* You will have a good view of the giver.
* Great opportunity for eye contact.

## Tips

* Keep your tights close together.
* Try stroking the giver’s tights as he thrusts.


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The Waterfall

The Valedictorian

The Twerk

#### What is it:

-   This is a more challenging version of the traditional 69. 
-   The heavier, stronger partner should sit on the bed or a chair. 
-   The lighter partner then puts their head into the lap of the heavier person. 
-   The heavier partner then maneuvers the lighter partner into an upside-down position. 
-   Both heads should be between the tights of each partner. 
-   Both partners should wrap their arms around their partner's waist. 
-   Then begin to mutually pleasure one another with your mouths.

#### Benefits:

-   This position will definitely give you both a bit of a workout and some added excitement.

#### Tips:

-   Don't try this if you can't support your partner's weight, the last thing you want to do is drop them! That will really kill the mood. 
-   Remember that this position can be dangerous. 
-   Don't try this position for more than a couple of minutes.

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The Standing 69

#### How to do it:

-   Both partners sit on the bed with their legs pointed towards one another. 
-   Both partners lie back slightly and support their weight. 
-   The receiver moves towards the giver. 
-   The receiver spreads their legs and keeps their legs on top of the giver's hips and lets them enter. 
-   The giver can begin to thrust.

#### Benefits:

-   This position is great because it allows eye contact and you can switch to other positions easily, such as missionary.
-   Let's pleasure each other with grinding and circular motions.

#### Tips:

-   Try moving your hips in a circular motion for a large sensation. 
-   Try kissing or stroking your partner.

The Spider 

#### How does it work?

-   The giver sits on the bed. 
-   The receiver gets down on their front and the giver enters similar to a doggy. 
-   Instead of letting the giver's legs remain on the bed, the giver lifts them up by the pelvis and the receiver grabs the giver by the waist with their legs.

#### Benefits:

-   This position is easier than the standing wheelbarrow.
-   Good for building strength and working out. 
-   Can start with this position before learning to do the standing wheelbarrow.
-   This position is popular for rear-entry penetration as well as penile-vaginal sex.
-   Have a couple of different pleasure points that you might not experience in a different position.
-   Brings the Aspot into view.

#### Tips:

-   Can put a pillow underneath knees or stomach for comfort.
-   If your partner does not have a penis you can still try this with a dildo or other toy.
-   Add some clitoral stimulation into the mix with a toy. 
-   Wrap your legs around your partner and grip them tighter with your inner thighs for a deeper and tighter feel.

The Seated Wheelbarrow 

#### What is it?

-   The receiver will lie on your right or left side. 
-   The giver kneels down. 
-   Staddle the receivers right led and then lift their left leg so it's curled around your left side.

#### Benefits:

-   This position allows for deep penetration.
-   You can maintain eye contact in this position. 
-   Is relaxing for the receiver.

#### Tips:

-   The receiver will have their hands free -so you can use them to finger, play, or use toys on your or your partner. 
-   If the raised leg makes the receiver uncomfortable or unstable they can use their arm to help them stay in position.
-   If you want to adjust the angle or depth of penetration you can grab the top arm of the person on the bottom and pull them closer towards you.
-   The receiver can hook their leg around the person on top.
-   The receiver can bring their knees closer to their chest.

The Pretzel 

#### What is it:

-   One partner sits on the bed cross-legged. 
-   The other partner climbs on top and crosses their legs behind their partner's back.

#### Benefits:

-   This position is calm and relaxing! 
-   Good eye contact.
-   Very intimate and sensual - it's basically a fun hug.

#### Tips:

-   This position is best for rocking back and forwards, not thrusting. 
-   Try lots of lube to make the rocking feel extra sensual!
-   Focus on your rhythm and try synchronizing your breath with your partner.

The OM/Yam-yum

#### What is it:

-   One partner sits on the bed or floor with their hands on the ground behind them. Then they spread their legs and slightly bend them at the knees.
-   The other partner places their hands behind their back, supporting their weight. Then they staddle their partner's lap and places their legs on their partner's shoulders.

#### Benefits:

-   This position enables your partner to try lots of different movements! 
-   They can thrust, grind, move side to side, and go as deep or shallow as you both want. 
-   Great view for both of you! 
-   Good for arm and butt strength.

#### Tips:

-   You can try wrapping your legs around your partner's neck, this will drive the two of you closer together.

The Octopus 

#### What is it:

-   Your giver lies on their back with their knees up and spread apart.
-   The receiver climbs on top. 
-   The receiver lifts their legs up, bent, and holds them with their arms.
-   The giver supports their partner by holding the back of their legs and elbows.

#### Benefit:

-   This is a good position for rear entry. 
-   Great for G-spot stimulation.
-   The giver will have lots of control for thrusting as their knees are bent. 

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#### Tips:

-   The receiver must make sure to keep their legs tightly together for a more intense feeling. 
-   Make sure to slightly bend your knees. 
-   Try having your legs holding the back of your legs for more balance. 
-   The giver can also play with their partner's penis or clitoris. 
-   Make sure to communicate with your partner!

The Mermaid 

#### What is it:

-   One partner lies on their back at a right angle to their partner.
-   The other person is on top and faces their partner. 
-   Both people interlock and cross tights for penetration.

#### Benefits:

-   Both partners can control the thrusting. You can both enjoy some autonomy!
-   You can move your partner closer or further away with your legs.
-   Due to the angle of the position, the penetration does not have to be too deep. 
-   Doesn't acquire strength or balance.  

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#### Tips:

-   You can caress your partner for a more intimate feel. 
-   The woman can stimulate her clitoris in this position.

The Cross 

#### What is it/How to do it:

-   Lean on the edge of a bed or sofa. 
-   Rest on the hip and forearm of one side. 
-   Press your thighs together while your partner stands and straddles you. 
-   They then enter from behind.

#### Benefits:

-   By having your legs pressed together you can hold your partner tighter.
-   As you are at a twisted angle this helps to hit the spot in a way you won't feel in any other position. 
-   Easier position to reach an orgasm for a woman.
-   Easy position to get into.
-   It's comfortable, but you may find that one side is more comfortable than the other.

#### Tips:

-   The receiver can also thrust the giver, try to get into a rhythm.
-   Throw a toy into the mix.

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The Corkscrew 

#### What is it?

-   Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed. 
-   Sit on your partner's lap, facing away from them.
-   Then start thrusting!

#### Benefit:

-   This will hit your P-spot or G-spot.
-   The receiver is hands-free so can add in some extra stimulation. 
-   You are also facing away from your partner so don't have to worry about facial expressions.

#### Tips:

-   If you bring your knees closer to your chest this will increase the intensity.
-   You can squat slightly or back up more onto your partner for deeper and more intense penetration.
-   Likewise, you can move away from your partner slightly for more shallow penetration. 
-   Try using some sex toys!

The Chairperson 

#### What is it:

-   The receiver lies on their back with their legs raised and folded over so that their ankles are on either side of their head. 
-   The giver squats on top of them and enters.

#### Benefits:

-   Great for eye contact.
-   Increases the excitement. 
-   Good flexibility and squat workout. 
-   Amazing for deep penetration. 
-   Potential for a deep and intense orgasm.

#### Tips:

-   Make sure that you are flexible enough for this position and don't have any back problems. 
-   If the position becomes uncomfortable, move into missionary, give your legs a rest and go back into the butter churner. 
-   Be careful not to injure your neck in this position, you can put a pillow underneath if this helps you. 
-   If you want to be a bit lazy then this position might not be for you.

The Butter Churner 

#### What is it:

-   This is a twist on missionary. 
-   The person lying on their back puts their legs on their partner's shoulders.

#### Benefits:

-   This means that the penetration can go deeper as the legs are over your partner's shoulders.
-   This position is actually easier than it might sound! And it's quite comfortable.

#### Tips:

-   You can control the depth by going closer or further away from your partner. 
-   If you want more depth or a tighter feel wrap your legs together.

The Anvil 

#### What is it?

-   This position will require some balance and core strength. 
-   The receiver will get on their hands and feet. 
-   Have the giver pick you up by the pelvis. 
-   Then grip the receiver's waist with your thighs.

#### Benefits:

-   It's definitely a good workout!
-   This gives deep penetration. 
-   Good view.
-   Good laugh.

#### Tips:

-   If you want to give your arms a break you can rest on a table or bed. 
-   Make sure that you and your partner are relatively strong before attempting this position. 
-   Don't thrust too hard or make your partner fall over!
-   Communicate with your partner.

Standing Wheelbarrow 

#### What is it:

-   This is a twist to the classic missionary position. 
-   To get into this position the receiver lies on their back and raises one leg into the air. 
-   The giver straddles their partner's lower leg and the receiver's raised leg rests on their shoulder.
-   Then the giver thrusts.

#### Benefits:

-   This position allows for deeper penetration. 
-   Makes the clitoris or penis more accessible. Therefore, you can stimulate this through a handjob, toys, or fingers.

#### Tips:

-   If the position gets tiring, you can change legs. 
-   Use lube. 
-   If you are the receiver, you can thrust in this position giving more stimulation to you and your partner. 
-   Try adjusting your hips so that your partner gets to your G-spot or P-spot.
-   This position is good for eroticism but not great for clit or dick stimulation so definitely try to add a toy into the mix.

Splitting the Bamboo 

#### What is it:

-   Both partners lie on their sides, facing away from each other.
-   Think little spoon, big spoon! 
-   The big spoon then enters from behind.

#### Benefits:

-   This position is cozy and comfortable. 
-   Allows for more skin-to-skin contact and extra stimulation.
-   For vaginal and anal penetration. 
-   This position leaves both of your hands-frees, so you can add a little extra pleasure.

#### Tips:

-   The big spoon can place their hands on the little spoon's shoulders to increase the intensity and deepness of the thrust. 
-   Use pillows for extra comfort. 
-   Try to play around with the intensity and see what you and your partner like best!

Scoop/Spoon 

#### What is it:

-   This is for all gendered couples! It is more inclusive of a sex position than mainstream porn may have you believe. 
-   Scissoring sex involved genital on genital rubbing or grinding.
-   To do this position you lie on your side, facing each other. 
-   Spread your legs and move closer to your partner so that your genitals are touching. 
-   Start to grind, hump or rub on each other. 
-   This position can include penetration but it doesn't have to.
-   Move around a bit and try to find a good rhythm.

#### Benefits:

-   Vulva owners have a lot of erectile tissue under the labia so this position can lead to a lot of stimulation.
-   Your pelvic floor muscles activate when you move your pelvis in a grinding motion against your partner.
-   For penises, scissoring will lead to a sensation of rubbing against something warm which can feel really good.

#### Tips:

-   Make sure to use lube! This will make it much more enjoyable and will avoid chafing. 
-   Include internal and external toys. 
-   Make eye contact
-   Kiss!
-   If your partner has a vagina: use a strap on for vaginal or anal penetration, use your fingers, try a butt plug, experiment with a double-ended dildo.
-   If your partner has a penis: use your fingers to penetrate them anally, try a butt plug, anal beads or a prostate massager. 
-   Try to experiment as much as possible with this position to find what works best for you and your partner.

The Scissor 

#### How to do the position:

-   If you like the rider position then the chances are you will also enjoy this. 
-   Your partner lies on their back, you climb on top of them, faced away looking towards their feet.

#### Benefits:

-   Your partner will get a pretty good view.
-   If you're worried about your facial expressions, then you don't have to in this position! You can just focus on the moment.
-   You'll be able to take control and go at your pace and rhythm.

#### Tips:

-   Try to experiment with the angle. You might want to sit up a bit straighter or lean forwards more. Discover what suits you the best, there's no right way to do it!
-   If it's a penis then consider its angle. Not every penis has the same angle. That's why you want to think about the angle and make sure to communicate with your partner. 
-   Communicate with your partner to find what angle and rhythm work for the both of you. 
-   Add some pillows for support. This can be for your knees, kips, or for your partner's neck. 
-   If the penetration is too deep, then lean forward or backward.
-   If you want more penetration then place a pillow under your partner's hips.
-   If you want some extra stimulation you can use your fingers or bring in a toy.

Reverse rider/reverse cowgirl 

#### What is it:

-   The giver kneels on the bed, with their body upwards. 
-   The receiver lies on their back and the giver picks up the receiver and supports them under their butt. 
-   The receiver arches their back in a bridge position and their legs dangle behind their partner's body.

#### Benefits:

-   This is a great position for deep penetration.
-   Great transition position!

#### Tips:

-   You can play around with the angle a bit. The giver can move the receiver upwards or downwards a bit and see what works best for both of you.

Pinball Wizard 

#### What is it:

-   The magic mountain position is a variation of doggy.
-   As the name implies, it is having sex on a 'mountain' of pillows or cushions. 
-   In this position, one partner has to kneel in front of the pile of pillows and lean their weight and forearms on the pillow. 
-   The other partner then enters from behind whilst on their knees.
-   This is different from doggy as you don't have to put all your weight in this position and so it's less exhausting.

#### Benefit:

-   This position is comfortable and as you are resting on the pillows you can stay in this position for longer.
-   Great position for G-spot or P-spot stimulation.

#### How to get into the position:

-   First, you have to create a small mountain of pillows on the bed or floor.
-   Make sure that the mountain is stable enough to withstand some pounding.
-   If you're the small spoon, make sure to put all of your body weight on the pillows as this will be more comfortable. 
-   The other partner should kneel down from behind and surround their legs around their partner to penetrate. You should rest your weight and elbows on the pillows parallel to your partner's forearms. 
-   You can also hold your partner's waist.

Magic Mountain 

#### What is the position?

-   Your partner sits on the edge of the bed or a chair, and you climb on top of them, face forward. 
-   Pretty easy position to get into, just make sure you lean your weight on your partner and they can hold your waist.

#### What's the benefit?

-   You can control the angle and depth of the entry and thrust. 
-   That means if you want to go deeper you can or if you want to go a bit more shallow you can control how much weight you're placing on your partner. 
-   Plus, being seated in this position is very comfortable.
-   It's also a great position for your partner to caress you. 
-   You can lock eyes with your partner, for a more personal sex position.

Lotus 

#### What is it:

-   The leapfrog is a doggy style variation that enables you to control how deep you are going.
-   Don't worry it doesn't involve any hopping. 
-   This position works for all gendered couples.
-   Similar to doggy, you'll get on your hands and knees but rest your forehead and arms on the bed while raising your hips in the air. 
-   If you are looking for deeper penetration, the leapfrog sex position is for you. 
-   You can also hold a vibrator or toy whilst being penetrated. 
-   When you are in a leapfrog position the partner will be doing most of the work. 
-   You can also thrust against your partner for more vigorous sex. This will also give them a bit of a rest if they are tired.

#### Tips:

-   You can try it against a wall so that you can place your hands on the wall and push back onto your partner, this will make the thrusting stronger.
-   You might find it more comfortable to use a pillow under your partner's head when performing the leapfrog. 
-   If you don't like deep penetration than this position might not be for you. 
-   You can make it tighter for your partner by keeping your legs together instead of apart.
-   Use your hands to stimulate your clitoris or to jerk off.

Leapfrog 

#### What is it:

-   The receiver lies down on their stomach. The giver goes on top and enters from behind. 
-   The receiver can move their legs apart or keeping them together. 
-   You can turn slightly to look up at your partner.

#### Tips:

-   It can be hard as the receiver to thrust back on your partner. But you can try this with subtle, not large movements. This will increase the deepness of the penetration. 
-   You can lift your legs up as the receiver to help it go in deeper or to change the angle. 
-   As the giver, you will be doing most of the work. You can put your weight on your hands or go down onto your forearms if this is more comfortable. 
-   Move around a bit until you find that sweet spot. 
-   If you want to make it more intimate the giver can lie on your body and start to kiss you. This will also enable them to penetrate you with more intensity.

#### Benefits:

-   Position works for anal sex too.
-   It's relaxing! 
-   Can transfer into this position quite easily

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Flat Iron 

#### What is it:

-   This is a fellatio technique with cold and hot sensations. 
-   This will arouse the receiver of oral sex.
-   This can be done with lube, warm or cold liquids, or oils.
-   Prepare two cups with liquid, one warm and one cold.
-   The person performing oral sex should take liquid from one cup into their mouth. 
-   The liquid can be held at the back of the mouth and under the tongue. 
-   As you perform oral sex the liquid will go on your partner.
-   This process is then repeated with the other liquid. 
-   Keep alternating between the two liquids.

#### Benefits:

-   This will lead to a great sensation when receiving oral sex.
-   A fun way to mix things up in the bedroom.

#### Tips:

-   Make sure the cups are at a good temperature, you don't want it to be too hot! 
-   Try using tea.
-   Try using ice cubes in your mouth. 
-   Choking caution.
-   Make sure you discuss your partner's STI status before commencing in sex.
-   Try to avoid mint tea on the clitoris as this can make it numb.

Fire and Ice 

#### The Basics:

-   Doggy is a go-to position. It can be playful, rough, sensual, and intimate. It all depends on how you want to do it! 
-   It all starts from behind! The receiving partner is on their hands and knees, facing away from their partner. 
-   This is a perfect position for hitting the G-Spot or the P-spot if you have a prostate, while the giver benefits from deep penetration and let's face it, a pretty good view.
-   You may enjoy being on all fours or you might be more comfortable leaning down instead. 
-   Your partner will enter from a standing or kneeling position. 
-   The person from behind will be doing most of the work, but the receiver can bounce back against their penis or toy.

#### Benefits:

-   If you have a vagina, doggy stimulates the G-spot and A-spot. 
-   Doggy style is also great for those who enjoy deep anal penetration with greater stimulation of the P-spot if the receiver has one.
-   Doggy style can also be incredibly intimate as the giver is easily able to caress and stroke most of their partner's body. 
-   You can easily bend over and kiss your partner. It can be a great way to give focus and attention to your partner.

#### What can you do if penetration feels too deep?

-   Sometimes doggy can feel a little too intense. But not to worry, there are a couple of things that you can do. 
-   You can ask your partner to go shallower. They will still be able to stimulate your G-spot or P-spot. 
-   Instead of having your partner thrust from behind, try taking control from the front. Thrusting backward onto their penis or toy will allow you to control the depth and speed. 
-   Switch up your position so there isn't as much of a direct path to your cervix or sphincter. You could move your knees closer together, position your arms closer to your knees or arch your back.

#### What if it doesn't feel deep enough?

-   If you want a little extra stimulation, you can take it to the next level.
-   Elevate your hips so they are higher than your upper body. You can lower yourself down to your elbow instead of your hands, or resting your face on a pillow so it's the same level as your knees. 
-   Move closer to your partner. 
-   Spread your knees further apart. 
-   Place a pillow under your stomach. 
-   Bring your knees closer to your hands. 
-   Have your partner hold your hips.

#### Tips (for added pleasure):

-   Have your partner reach around and play with your genitals, or take matters into your own hands. 
-   Add a sex toy. This will increase stimulation. You can hold the toy in place or move it around your body. Whatever feels best for you! 
-   As your partner to pay attention to your erogenous zones. 
-   Try it in front of a mirror. This way you can make eye contact with each other.
-   Don't forget the lube.
-   Adjust the height. If the receiver is a lot smaller than the giver then make sure they are on an elevated surface. 
-   Relax! Cause you're not making eye contact you don't have to worry about any potential sex faces you're embarrassed about.

Doggy 

#### What is it?

-   This position will require some flexibility on the part of the receiver. 
-   It's a bit similar to doggy.
-   To get into this position - the receiver stands with their legs spread apart and bends at the waist.
-   Support yourself with palms on the floor.
-   The giver will stand behind the receiver and penetrate the anus or vagina.

#### Benefits:

-   It is an excellent position for stimulating the G-spot or P-spot.
-   This is a good position if you want a quickie.

#### Tips:

-   Try not to thrust to roughly in this position as you will want to avoid falling other.

Crouching Tiger 

#### What is the Cowgirl/Rider sex position?

-   This is traditionally known as cowgirl position, but it can also be called cowboy, rider, or cow person position for people of all gender identities. 
-   The person on top is receiving vaginal or anal penetration.
-   The position requires the person with the penis to lie down with their legs straight, while the person receiving penetration kneels on top with their legs out to either side of the person lying down. The partners face each other. 
-   Reverse cowgirl and horizontal cowgirl are variations of the traditional cowgirl position. 
-   Many people think this position is mutually satisfying and find it easier to orgasm.
-   It puts the receptive partner in control of the rhythm, depth, and angle. 
-   Not a lot of other positions do this.

#### Benefits to Rider on top:

-   Eye contact.
-   Kissing.
-   Thrusting. 
-   Clitoral stimulation.

#### How to get into the position:

-   Kneel on top of your partner. 
-   You can lean on their chest once inside, or you can lean back and support yourself on their thighs. 
-   Play around with the angle and your hips. Find the best sweet spot for you. 
-   The angle of your pelvis is going to be what dictates how deep the penis or dildo goes. 
-   If your pelvis is tilted towards your partner's face, they're more likely to get deep and stimulate your cervix, A-spot or P-spot. 
-   If your pelvis is tilted away from your partner's face, they're more likely to stimulate your G-spot.

#### Tips:

-   Kneel instead of squatting. This is much more comfortable.
-   Stimulate your clit whilst on top. You or your partner can do this with your hands or get a toy involved. 
-   Don't just try to bounce on top, this isn't always the best. Instead, try rocking or thrusting. This feels a lot nicer and more intense than bouncing. 
-   Place a pillow or blanket next to you to hold onto.
-   Rest chest-to-chest with your partner. 
-   Go reverse! It's always a great view for your partner.
-   Try it on the floor.
-   Try a butt plug. This will add to the intensity by placing more pressure on your G-spot. If you have a vagina, a butt plug (if it's your thing) will create a greater sensation. 
-   If you have a penis, a butt plug can stimulate your prostate and create full pressure.
-   Want to make it more intense? Widen your knees or bring them closer together.

#### What to do if there's a body size difference?

-   Chairs can help if you are worried about having too much weight on your partner. This will place more of the weight on your legs. 
-   If the penetrator is bigger try reverse rider. This will enable you to lean forward as much as you want without your partner being in the way.
-   Need more support? Lean on your headboard or add pillows where you need extra cushioning.

#### What can you do if penetration feels too deep?

-   With this position, you have control over the depth.
-   Communicate with your partner. 
-   Put more pressure on your hands, prop yourself up a bit to make it more shallow.

#### What can you do if penetration doesn't feel deep enough?

-   You can place a pillow under your partner's hips. This will make it deeper.
-   Can do the crab instead, for a deeper feel.
-   Lean back to support yourself for deeper penetration.

#### If you have a vulva?

-   Bring in a toy, maybe a vibrator, or use your hands.
-   Use a butt plug.

#### If you have a penis?

-   Masturbate with your free hands. 
-   Have your partner stimulate your penis or balls with a vibrator.

Cowgirl/Rider 

#### What is it:

-   This is one of the most basic sex positions, but that doesn't mean it's not great! 
-   The giver lies on their back and their partner goes on top of them and enters. 

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#### Benefits:

-   This position is super intimate.
-   It's comfortable. 
-   You can transition into other positions easily.
-   It's the perfect warm-up. 
-   Low-effort or high-effort.

#### Tips:

-   The partner on top has more control over the speed and depth of penetration so make sure to communicate.
-   The partner on the bottom can also change it up by changing the position of their hips and legs. This will create a different sensation for both partners. 
-   If you have any aches or back pain then try to be the one lying on your back.

Missionary 

#### What is  it:

-   This is a variation of missionary but just a little bit more exciting. 
-   In this position, the receiver is on their back with their ankles to their shoulders. 
-   Your partner will enter on top in the same way as a missionary with their hands next to the sides of the receiver.

#### Benefits to the Butterfly:

-   You can lie back and relax in this position. 
-   The giver can slide up and down against their body which will be more relaxing than constant pumping. 
-   You can also do this position on the edge of the bed or on the counter. 
-   You can tilt your hips upward to get more control of the depth and control how intense the penetration is.
-   You can incorporate sex toys whilst in this position as this position leaves some space to play with your clit or penis. 
-   This position can also be good for anal. 
-   If you are doing anal in this position make sure to keep your legs closer together or keep your knees close to your chest. This will allow you to relax more.

Butterfly 

#### What is  it:

-   This is a variation of missionary but just a little bit more exciting. 
-   In this position, the receiver is on their back with their ankles to their shoulders. 
-   Your partner will enter on top in the same way as a missionary with their hands next to the sides of the receiver.

#### Benefits to the Butterfly:

-   You can lie back and relax in this position. 
-   The giver can slide up and down against their body which will be more relaxing than constant pumping. 
-   You can also do this position on the edge of the bed or on the counter. 
-   You can tilt your hips upward to get more control of the dept#### What is it:

-   69 is a mutual oral sex position. 
-   You can do this in two ways; both partners can lie on their sides, facing towards one another's genitals. 
-   Or: one partner can lie on the back and the other climbs on top, facing towards their genitals.

#### Benefits:

-   Both you and your partner will get simultaneous oral pleasure.
-   Super intimate.
-   Will help you train your coordination!

#### Tips:

-   Add in a vibrator 
-   Try a vibrating cock ring. 
-   It might be easier to give a better blowjob if your partner is on their back rather than their side, but that's just a personal preference!

‍ position leaves some space to play with your clit or penis. 
-   This position can also be good for anal. 
-   If you are doing anal in this position make sure to keep your legs closer together or keep your knees close to your chest. This will allow you to relax more.

Positions

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Widely Opened

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The Waterfall

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The Valedictorian

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The Twerk

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The Standing 69

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The Spider

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The Seated Wheelbarrow

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The Pretzel

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The OM/Yam-yum

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The Octopus

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The Mermaid

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The Cross

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The Corkscrew

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The Chairperson

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The Butter Churner

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The Anvil

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Standing Wheelbarrow

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Splitting the Bamboo

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Scoop/Spoon

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The Scissor

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Reverse rider/reverse cowgirl

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Pinball Wizard

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Magic Mountain

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Lotus

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Leapfrog

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Flat Iron

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Fire and Ice

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Doggy

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Crouching Tiger

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Cowgirl/Rider

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Missionary

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Butterfly

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69

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